For awhile before my grandmother passed away my grandparents had stopped traveling. Like anywhere. We always thought that it was my grandfather behind the lack of traveling. But within a year of grandmother passing he started to travel and we found out that it was my grandmother who didn’t want to travel. How about them apples? All that time we thought it was him, but it was actually her. Its amazing how that happens.
Well recently I’ve noticed that the guy I used to date has been going out more. I’m fairly certain its just with friends, but still, going out more. Why is it that I could barely get him to commit to dinner, but now he’s going out left and right? Okay, it may not be all the time but it is still more than we would go out. I thought about it for a couple of days and then started to wonder… maybe it wasn’t him, maybe it was me.
Is it me?!
I mean I know I’m not a party animal, but I do like to go out every once in awhile. Its not like I constantly turn down invitations to go out. Yes, I have on occasion when I just wasn’t in the mood, but it is not an everyday occurrence. But then again, either are invitations to go out. Lol.
So maybe I need to make more friends. Or get my existing friends to go out more. Hell, I don’t know. I feel like I’m still adjusting to the single life. And of course that is a major adjustment when most of my friends are married. Heck, I’m pretty sure ALL my friends are married. But that is no excuse! I need to get off my lazy butt and make more of an effort! Easier said than done though.
So regardless of whether or not it is me, I need to figure out a way to get out more. Maybe take advantage of a meetup group. Or stop being such a pansy and join a running group. Decisions, decisions. So where do I start?