Ah the Aha Moment. It may take awhile and we may regret the time seemingly wasted while we were in the dark waiting but once the light turns on we have the opportunity for a new perspective. Aha moments are like sudden awakenings. And they change us forever.
Consider a moment that enlightened you to a new way of seeing things…
Wow, an aha moment huh? Well, the biggest one recently was probably around March or April. When the endless crying finally started to slow down and I had a chance to realize that this divorce may very well be the best thing that could have happened to me. It took me a long time to realize all of the bad things that I was dealing with before things went downhill. And then of course I realized how lucky I was that there were no kids involved. It SO could have been worse. And even though I’m not overly excited about “starting over” at 31, it’s been going pretty well so far. And I’m lucky enough to have this 2nd chance at 31… and not after 25 years of marriage. It really could be worse.
